Are You Sending Out Positive Vibes?

 

When my son was a baby, strangers would say, "Oh she's so cute." or
"She's so pretty!" I would smile and say, "Thank you." I could've told

them it was a boy, but why do that? Always take a compliment with a 

smile. So imagine if I would've said, "It's a boy not a girl!" The posi-

tive vibe the stranger put out would've instantly turned into a negative

vibe.

When people talk to you, what kind of vibes do you think you're send-

ing out? Do you have a positive attitude, or are you a dark cloud? 

Most of the time people will treat you according to how you approach

them...It's that simple.

I don't believe we should be pushovers, but being nice will take you

much farther than walking around with a negative attitude.

Do You Let People Use You?

Have you ever done something for someone, but it didn't feel right? 
Did you feel used? It's OK to help people, but sometimes helping 

turns into enabling. The more you enable someone the more they're 

gonna want from you. They will get as much out of you, and from you 

as long as you let them.

Are you confused if you're being used or not? When you help somebody

you should feel good about it, but if you're being used you will feel bad 

about it. If you start to feel bad about helping someone, that person has

probably crossed the line into the using category. It's time to stop being

an enabler for that user!

You can decide how to stop being used. You can either slowly stop 

helping them, or stop altogether. Either way, you have to stop letting

people drain you of your time and happiness.