Have you ever done something for someone, but it didn't feel right?
Did you feel used? It's OK to help people, but sometimes helping
Did you feel used? It's OK to help people, but sometimes helping
turns into enabling. The more you enable someone the more they're
gonna want from you. They will get as much out of you, and from you
as long as you let them.
Are you confused if you're being used or not? When you help somebody
you should feel good about it, but if you're being used you will feel bad
about it. If you start to feel bad about helping someone, that person has
probably crossed the line into the using category. It's time to stop being
an enabler for that user!
You can decide how to stop being used. You can either slowly stop
helping them, or stop altogether. Either way, you have to stop letting
people drain you of your time and happiness.
